How do you like to do oral sex!?
Behold reach again a sensitive issue, which even now in full XXI century manages to scandalize: oral sex. What for most men is heaven on earth for many women, but thought it could give to your partner oral stimulation makes them blush, to squirm and even out the mouth words like”Never! “.
That’s right! Oral sex has still remained a taboo, and seen over highly controversial among women everywhere. The reasons that prevents them on most women oral sex to associate the word “pleasure” are diverse: from “I will not respect me if I do something“ to “If you do not know what to do?“. Well, it’s time to let your inhibitions and preconceptions aside!
Oral sex is one of the most intimate sexual acts, men considering it even more intimate and more exciting than any sexual position. How not to look at oral sex as a burden, but rather as a pleasant act between two people who love each other? Here’s what we say!
Find out why you are afraid to do oral sex
First and foremost, you must know what causes that determine your reluctance to give oral sex. For example, many representatives of the fair sex, intimate consider this practice as one of the most humiliating and degrading acts against the man they despise. Other women, though willing, avoid as much as possible to reach the stage of having to satisfy such partner for fear that they will not understand, they will not know what to do once you get in front of that … (very) fulfilled.
Well, your boyfriend will not consider a woman because she mild oral sex any more will not feel disappointed if the first time, you’ll be slightly awkward. On the contrary, he will feel most wanted and satisfied man on earth will know that he is near a woman uninhibited and full of confidence and will not hesitate to bring himself to ecstasy, turning your favor. Repeat makes perfect, and no false modesty and pointless in a couple tight seams, in which both partners have proven over time that they love and respect.
Sperm is not your enemy!
If you fear that you will prevents sperm taste enjoying a pleasurable sexual experience, there are several solutions to prevent semen to get into your mouth. For example, give him a blowjob while he wears a condom flavored specially designed for such practices. Although we guarantee that the penis will not stay very long covered, your initiative! Flavored lubricant is again a suitable solution. Manufacturers make available your fruity varieties or chocolaty, only good test.
You must also know that the taste of sperm can be strongly influenced by diet. Natural fruit juice and celery sweeten sperm, while asparagus, broccoli, dairy fats, fried foods, alcohol and cigarettes taste transform semninal liquid in one hard … tasted.
As to swallow sperm, this is purely your decision. It is perfectly healthy, 96% of the composition of semen is … water! Otherwise, semen contains compounds as can be friendly with our body: fructose, vitamin C, sodium bicarbonate, proteins and enzymes and various minerals including magnesium, phosphorus, potassium and zinc, slightly metallic taste ingredient responsible for sperm. Not fat and contains only 20 calories.
If we talk about STDs, indeed they can contact and through oral sex, but as long as you have a solid relationship and analyzes the day, you do not have to worry!
If you are still reticent when it comes to swallowing sperm, she can ask your partner not to ejaculate in your mouth. Let him instead to pour sperm on your breasts. The landscape will be extremely exciting for him!
The feeling of power, bat a fault!
It is impossible that only think of the feeling of power, which fully owns you when you handle the most precious part of his body, not to incite the least bit, pushing you to give an oral sex the book!
When orally stimulate him, you are in control. You’re the one who makes the rules: You decide who will be the next move, you decide how much pleasure your partner and give her everything will turn you decide that such a match. You can leave oral sex foreplay stage, or you can turn into a main act. Now you are the center of his universe (not as yet have not been) and be sure that whatever you do, no matter how awkward … you are, your lover will be pleasantly surprised.
Lack of experience you should not hamper!
No matter you are novice in the oral sex. Most men feel flattered when they learn that they are the ones who have occasion to intitial the secrets of oral sex partners, such as lack of experience is not an impediment! It is not a must to be an expert, but just let yourself carried away, to empty your mind of all inhibition and fear of failure, and you have to consider a few things:
Teeth do not make sense, so cover them with lips and uses language, licking penis as the most delicious candy. Even if the penis is a very sensitive organ, does not mean you should not coddle him too hard and not use some … power. Do not be afraid to suck with more force (and passion), and even use your hands, alternating sucking manual stimulation. When you feel like he’s about to ejaculate, simply do not stop what you are doing. It means that you are on track!
Do not drown if …
… Learn to control your breathing! Breathe through your nose and take things easy. It is not mandatory to swallow much of the penis to give pleasure, but you‘re limited to stimulation with lips and tongue, as long as you can endure.
If you still like the idea of a deep-throat (a blow-job deeper) and you are a beginner when it comes to oral sex, it is necessary to practice a little before. How? Using a banana or a dildo, of course! You will learn to control your gag reflex when you find the right position, which help you to relax your neck muscles. Regarding the position, you can be the one who lies down on his back while orally stimulate your lover. Thus, the chances gag reflex to install, will be much lower.
Surrender to your pleasure!
What better advice than this I already have the final offer? Sex is synonymous with relaxation. Tension and fear of disappointing your partner because of a lack of experience, does not have a purpose. Is this your first sexual experience of this kind? Discuss with your partner and see how slowly, inhibitions and shyness disappear. You feel like you’re drowning, and no longer want to continue? Withdraw immediately you again, tell your lover what bothered you.
No oral sex turn into a burden and not an end in itself of partner satisfaction at any cost, and so. Feel comfortable, relax and get rid of inhibitions! Let yourself be carried away and enjoy the most enjoyable sexual experience!